Emotional Infidelity

Emotional Infidelity Author M. Gary Neuman
ISBN-10 9780307565686
Release 2009-06-03
Pages 320
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What’s holding you back from a great marriage? “I don’t believe in ‘okay,’ ‘decent,’ or ‘solid’ marriages. I’m against them,” says M. Gary Neuman. “I believe only in great marriages, and that you should expect and reach for no less.” In the last fifteen years, M. Gary Neuman, marital therapist and architect of the Sandcastles Divorce Therapy Program, has helped thousands of couples in crisis. Couples who fight. Who’ve grown apart. Who are stuck in relationships that run more on routine and rancor than love and understanding. What he’s found is that, contrary to popular belief, the problem is usually not poor communication. It’s the failure to put most of your focus into your marriage. You’ve only got so much energy. Are you spending it by being emotionally unfaithful? Take a quick check: Do you send that funny e-mail to your friends at work—but not to your spouse? Do you chew over all the problems on the job so thoroughly with your colleagues that by the time you get home, you just don’t feel like going into it all over again? Do you get a secret thrill out of flirting with coworkers—thinking it’s safe because you know it’s not going any further? If so, you’re committing emotional infidelity—and you’re draining your marriage of the energy it needs to be great. Learning how to break this cycle is one of eleven secrets M. Gary Neuman shares in his provocative new book. Based on the ten-week program he’s developed in his successful couples counseling practice, the book offers guidelines that are often counterintuitive, even outrageous or shocking. But they work. Dare to limit contact with members of the opposite sex. Dare to need each other. Dare to put in writing the nitty-gritty realities of a marriage plan. Dare to put your marriage before your kids or job. Dare to make love in a whole new way. Dare to change your focus: make the commitment to focus on each of the eleven secrets (ten plus one bonus secret) for one week apiece and you’ll reap the rewards of a transformed marriage and a reconfirmed relationship. M. Gary Neuman’s program is guaranteed to challenge you and make you reexamine the myths holding you back from true happiness and satisfaction. It will change your marriage forever. From the Hardcover edition.



Emotional Infidelity

Emotional Infidelity Author M. Gary Neuman
ISBN-10 0609810006
Release 2002-09-01
Pages 306
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A marital therapist offers guidelines for curing even the most dysfunctional marriages, including limiting friendships with the opposite sex and creating a "marriage proposal."



Emotional Infidelity

Emotional Infidelity Author M. Gary Neuman
ISBN-10 9780609810002
Release 2002-09-01
Pages 320
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A marital therapist offers guidelines for curing even the most dysfunctional marriages, including limiting friendships with the opposite sex and creating a "marriage proposal."



The Emotional Affair

The Emotional Affair Author Ronald T. Potter-Efron
ISBN-10 9781572245709
Release 2009-01
Pages 163
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The Emotional Affair is the only book on the market for couples seeking to cope with and recover from one partner's emotional affair. Although emotional affairs often do not include physical intimacy, they can take away from the relationship by encouraging one partner to get his or her emotional needs met elsewhere, and by bringing secrecy and deception into the relationship, which damages trust just as surely as if the partner had slept with the other person. Emotional affairs share three characteristics: Emotional intimacy. Transgressors share more of their inner self, frustrations and triumphs than with their spouses. They are on a slippery slope when they begin sharing the dissatisfaction with their marriage with a co-worker. Secrecy and deception. They neglect to say, We meet every morning for coffee. Once the lying starts, the intimacy shifts farther away from the marriage. Sexual chemistry. Even though the two may not act on the chemistry, there is at least an unacknowledged sexual attraction. Often, people whose partners have emotional affairs either don't feel like they have a right to put an end to it (after all, the other person is just a friend and not a lover), or they have to contend with the cheating person's evasions and justifications (we work together, we're not having an affair), and accusations that the jealousy or insecurity is not justified. It can be difficult to think of an emotional affair as a problem, even if it's causing the partner worry, jealousy, insecurity, and the loss of emotional connection to the cheating partner. This book helps the reader explore whether or not the partner is having an emotional affair and then offers steps to discovering the roots of the problem, making changes in the relationship, discussing the issue with the cheating partner, and recovering from the breach of trust and intimacy caused by the affair.



NOT Just Friends

NOT  Just Friends Author Shirley Glass
ISBN-10 9781416586401
Release 2007-11-01
Pages 448
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One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.



Emotional Infidelity

Emotional Infidelity Author M. Gary Neuman
ISBN-10 0609608231
Release 2001
Pages 306
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A marital therapist offers ten guidelines for curing even the most dysfunctional marriages, including limiting friendships with the opposite sex and creating a "marriage proposal."



Torn Asunder

Torn Asunder Author Dave M. Carder
ISBN-10 0802479553
Release 2007-05-01
Pages 320
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A resource on marital infedlity for all involved, even onlookers Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples. Along the way Carder also answers questions like: Why did this happen? We didn’t actually sleep together, so is it still an affair? Can I trust my spouse again? Should I reveal a secret affair? What if my spouse doesn’t want me back? What do we tell the kids? This refreshed and updated edition is an excellent resource for pastors, leaders, and lay people. Pair this with the Torn Asunder Workbook to for extra guidance in applying the book's advice to your marriage.



Unfaithful

Unfaithful Author Gary Shriver
ISBN-10 0781404401
Release 2009-11-01
Pages 256
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Statistics show that one in every four marriages is impacted by infidelity. So the odds are pretty good that you or someone you know has experienced the searing pain of marital infidelity. But adultery is not an automatic death sentence for your marriage. You can trust again. You can restore intimacy. You can have a relationship that you will both cherish for a lifetime. Ten years ago, Gary and Mona Shriver experienced the devastation caused by adultery, and in the course of trying to save themselves, they wrote this book. Raw, transparently honest, the Shrivers’ story alone is an inspiration, offering hope and practical strategies for healing. Now this updated and revised edition adds other real-life stories of betrayal and forgiveness, and new information defining adultery, including the destruction of emotional affairs. Some doubt if a marriage can truly heal after the ravages of infidelity. Unfaithful proves you can. It’s not easy . . . but it can be done. Is it worth it? Yes. And you hold the first step—and hope—in your hand.



Jealousy in Sexual and Emotional Infidelity

Jealousy in Sexual and Emotional Infidelity Author Dawn Kari Nannini
ISBN-10 OCLC:952359923
Release 2000
Pages 94
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Jealousy in Sexual and Emotional Infidelity has been writing in one form or another for most of life. You can find so many inspiration from Jealousy in Sexual and Emotional Infidelity also informative, and entertaining. Click DOWNLOAD or Read Online button to get full Jealousy in Sexual and Emotional Infidelity book for free.



Living and Loving after Betrayal

Living and Loving after Betrayal Author Steven Stosny
ISBN-10 9781608827541
Release 2013-09-01
Pages 232
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Betrayal has many faces, including anger, abuse, deceit, and infidelity. These feel like betrayal because they violate the implicit promise of emotional bonds, that your loved one will care about your wellbeing and never intentionally hurt you. If you've recently left a relationship where you felt betrayed by your partner—or if you want to repair one—it can seem impossible to view the world without the shadow of past betrayal hovering over you. As a result, you may struggle to create meaning in your life, find the strength to forgive, or build new, loving relationships. InLiving and Loving after Betrayal, therapist and relationship expert Steven Stosny offers effective tools for healing, based on his highly successful CompassionPower program. He founded the CompassionPower agency on the belief that we are more powerful when compassionate than when angry or aggressive, and that true strength comes from relating compassionately to others and remaining true to your deeper values. In this book, you’ll learn practical strategies for overcoming betrayal-induced trauma and the chronic resentment and depression that result, using this innovative compassion-empowerment approach. Most books on betrayal only focus on the obvious issues, such as infidelity, abuse, or sex addiction. This book explores the effects of those kinds of betrayal, as well as less-talked-about types, such as emotional manipulation, dishonesty, deceit, and financial cheating. In addition, the book helps you regain a sense of trust in others so that you can eventually find another compassionate person to share your life with or, if you choose, to rebuild a relationship with your reformed betrayer. Recovering from the betrayal of partner isn’t easy, but Living and Loving after Betrayaloffers potent ways to heal, grow, and love again.



Infidelity

Infidelity Author Paul R. Peluso
ISBN-10 9781135925345
Release 2007-06-15
Pages 352
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When one partner in a relationship is unfaithful to the other, it takes a lot of work by both parties involved to salvage the relationship. In today’s therapy-friendly climate, marriage/couples counseling is often a part of that rebuilding process. Many couples seek out professional therapy after an affair is out in the open, but often the act of infidelity is revealed while uncovering and discussing unrelated issues for which the couple is in counseling. And yet, amazingly, as common as this complex and difficult topic arises in therapy, there is relatively little professional literature devoted to understanding and "treating" infidelity. In this volume, Paul Peluso has assembled a truly impressive list of contributors from a range of disciplines and backgrounds, including marital therapy, family therapy, evolutionary psychology, marriage research, and cyberstudies, with the aim of filling this void.



Gut Reactions

Gut Reactions Author Jesse J. Prinz
ISBN-10 9780199882250
Release 2004-08-12
Pages 288
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Gut Reactions is an interdisciplinary defense of the claim that emotions are perceptions in a double sense. First of all, they are perceptions of changes in the body, but, through the body, they also allow us to literally perceive danger, loss, and other matters of concern. This proposal, which Prinz calls the embodied appraisal theory, reconciles the long standing debate between those who say emotions are cognitive and those who say they are noncognitive. The basic idea behind embodied appraisals is captured in the familiar notion of a "gut reaction," which has been overlooked by much emotion research. Prinz also addresses emotional valence, emotional consciousness, and the debate between evolutionary psychologists and social constructionists.



Chatting Or Cheating

Chatting Or Cheating Author Sheri Meyers
ISBN-10 0984734821
Release 2012-03
Pages 306
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Whether the reader suspects his or her partner of cheating, or is the one who's been engaging in a secret affair, Meyers describes the process of discovery, confrontation, confession, and healing that can save a relationship and make it even better.



Gender Dependent Flashbulb Memories of Sexual Versus Emotional Infidelity

Gender Dependent Flashbulb Memories of Sexual Versus Emotional Infidelity Author Christine Therese Fisher
ISBN-10 OCLC:909785169
Release 2013
Pages 80
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Gender Dependent Flashbulb Memories of Sexual Versus Emotional Infidelity has been writing in one form or another for most of life. You can find so many inspiration from Gender Dependent Flashbulb Memories of Sexual Versus Emotional Infidelity also informative, and entertaining. Click DOWNLOAD or Read Online button to get full Gender Dependent Flashbulb Memories of Sexual Versus Emotional Infidelity book for free.



Emotions in Social Psychology

Emotions in Social Psychology Author W. Gerrod Parrott
ISBN-10 0863776825
Release 2001
Pages 378
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This reader presents a collection of influential articles on the nature of emotions and ther role in social psychological phenomena, along with recent work that reflects the current state of the art.



The Subtlety of Emotions

The Subtlety of Emotions Author Aaron Ben-Ze'ev
ISBN-10 0262523191
Release 2001
Pages 611
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Aaron Ben-Ze'ev carries out what he calls "a careful search for general patterns in the primeval jungle of emotions."



Meta analysis

Meta analysis Author Christopher J. Carpenter
ISBN-10 1473951828
Release 2014
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Meta-analysis is a method of estimating the strength of a relationship between two variables across based on a weighted mean of the effect sizes found in the research literature on those two variables. I discuss the basics of the method with my meta-analysis of differential reactions to sexual and emotional infidelity based on biological sex.